Its been a while since Ive put my business out on front street but here we are.
Well this is family business, so If y’all didn’t know, I’m no contact with my sister, and I’m very at peace with that decision. I could honestly care less about her, I don’t need nor want a relationship with her, however I do have a nephew. A little chocolate boy that I love very much, and unfortunately I have to at least be cordial with my sibling for the sake of having a relationship with him. Yes, he is at an age where he can have a cell phone but he’s a kid, I don’t expect him to keep his phone charged, and reach out to me, although he can. So there’s multiple times where I call, and FaceTime, and I receive no answer, I do send a followup text but once again, he’s a child.
Its just so frustrating when you want to be a part of their lives, but you don’t rock with the parent. He hurt himself this week, and was visibly upset, which my eldest niece told me. So of course I call, text, etc and received no reply. SO the next best thing, is to contact my sibling, so that when he’s available he could call me, but that very small exchange, set her off. I was told I was bothering her, like girl. Everything isn’t about you. I don’t take pleasure in chatting with you, but If I want to check in on my nephew, its you I have to go thru. Now the decision has been presented to just leave him be If its through my sister I have to go. Which, even in writing this, makes me incredibly sad.
Damn, I just realized I wrote so much.
Tristan J.
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