“What do you like to do for fun?” I fucking hate that question! Seriously, is there anything else you can ask? My Answer is usually generic, something along the lines of ‘I’m all about travel, […]
Tag: dating
(Ex) Friends
Can you be friends with an Ex? In my younger dating years, I was able to keep it cute and cordial with folks who previously had the pleasure of my company. However, now, No I […]
Flags of Red
I saw the red flags. Each and Every One, I saw them. When I recognized them, I fell back. I wasn’t that deep in with homie, so I was able to begin the process of […]
Those Twenty Somethings
My thirty something self dated a twenty something man, and I learned I have absolutely patience for that level of education. Age is more than just a fucking number, Aaliyah Lied! Maybe its because I […]
Hitch
The Hopeless Romantic in me loves the movie Hitch, I know we’ve discussed this before but its currently showing on Netflix, and I seriously cannot get enough of it. At this very moment I am […]
More than …
I’ll be the first to admit, I have tried, and done everything to show a man, I was the one for him. I was always myself, but I made sure to be what he needed, […]
According to Wale…
“I don’t really know a damn thing about this love thing but I’m tryna try.” In the past, telling me you are willing to try this ‘love thing’ may have excited me. Wow! Here we […]
First Loves.
Writers Edit: Article first published on Chillology.co My forever love and first heartbreak is all wrapped in the same person, Lee Sidney*. If you could imagine a person so perfect, it would be him. I […]
Dear Diary …
My My My, its been such a long time, that Ive ‘written’ in you dear diary. I do apologize, Ive just been out here living life. So I know, you hate being kept in the […]
Dear Diary …
There was a time when meeting his mother was significant, right? No checklist, but you had to mean something special to him, before you met momma. Y’all had reached a certain ‘level’ before the meeting […]
According to Wale.
“She gonna find her solace, in knowing a nigga is damaged. She gonna take my heart, cuz a nigga took her for granted.” Solace n. Comfort or consolation in a time of distress or sadness. […]
Where’s my Lid?
If a man’s words and actions don’t match, leave. If you’re set on staying, always go according to his words. He can ‘show’ you all the emotions and feels in the World but once you […]
