Fellas, stop introducing women to a vibe you cannot maintain. Whatever that vibe may be. I get it, when you initially meet a person you want to be the very best version of yourself, even […]
Tag: dating
“What do you like to do for fun?” I fucking hate that question! Seriously, is there anything else you can ask? My Answer is usually generic, something along the lines of ‘I’m all about travel, […]
(Ex) Friends
Can you be friends with an Ex? In my younger dating years, I was able to keep it cute and cordial with folks who previously had the pleasure of my company. However, now, No I […]
Flags of Red
I saw the red flags. Each and Every One, I saw them. When I recognized them, I fell back. I wasn’t that deep in with homie, so I was able to begin the process of […]
Those Twenty Somethings
My thirty something self dated a twenty something man, and I learned I have absolutely patience for that level of education. Age is more than just a fucking number, Aaliyah Lied! Maybe its because I […]
Hitch
The Hopeless Romantic in me loves the movie Hitch, I know we’ve discussed this before but its currently showing on Netflix, and I seriously cannot get enough of it. At this very moment I am […]
More than …
I’ll be the first to admit, I have tried, and done everything to show a man, I was the one for him. I was always myself, but I made sure to be what he needed, […]
According to Wale…
“I don’t really know a damn thing about this love thing but I’m tryna try.” In the past, telling me you are willing to try this ‘love thing’ may have excited me. Wow! Here we […]
First Loves.
Writers Edit: Article first published on Chillology.co My forever love and first heartbreak is all wrapped in the same person, Lee Sidney*. If you could imagine a person so perfect, it would be him. I […]
Dear Diary …
My My My, its been such a long time, that Ive ‘written’ in you dear diary. I do apologize, Ive just been out here living life. So I know, you hate being kept in the […]
Dear Diary …
There was a time when meeting his mother was significant, right? No checklist, but you had to mean something special to him, before you met momma. Y’all had reached a certain ‘level’ before the meeting […]
