Tag: making friends

Friendless in Chicago

When I have no one to chat with, I know I can always come here and be received. Even if, sometimes it feels like I’m talking to myself here too. But its a safe space, and I’ll always appreciate that I’ve created this for myself.

So I need some friends. I KNOW, this has been the topic for forever. But this time its not my fault that I don’t have any. I’ve met a few people, but the energy is lackluster. I’m not saying we have to chat everyday, but I think it has to be more than once a month. No? I am tired of being the one to carry the conversation, and ultimately the friendship. So now I don’t even feel like attempting to make friends with anyone.

Oh! And I was friendly with a coworker, and after suggesting two events, she ghosted me when I inquired about more information. And the more being, what day would you like to go to said events. THEN when I said something about it to her, after the days had passed, she said she figured I wasn’t interested. Like what?

SOS, Tristan J.

frens.

I know y’all are tired, beyond tired of me complaining about having no friends, but I don’t know where else to vent. I even thought about removing all the subscribers, cuz maybe y’all are really tired of reading this sob story, about little me, but then I figured, when y’all have had enough, y’all would remove me yallselves. So this time I went back on Bumble BFF but Idk, folks say they want friends but if you barely respond to messages what the point? I am a consistent person, just always have been. I get that people have responsibilities, as do I, but to create a friendship with a stranger you have to be willing to chat with them a bit. Maybe its in my destiny to just be a loner forever cuz I’m not sure what else I can do to interact with others.

Jonez.