No matter how good your intentions are, sometimes people have to fail. And I mean that in the nicest way possible. No matter how much knowledge you have about something, If they are not willing to at least be open to listening, then let it be. Also, I am NO future teller, and I don’t see the future but when something is a known pattern, and you’re trying to pass on what it is you KNOW, you cant force them to listen. I, personally don’t do chaos. No matter the subject, I’m going to make a plan. That plan won’t be extensive, but I have an outline of what’s priority IF something should go awry. Because Murphy’s law, anything that can go wrong will, and babes, I refuse to run around like a chicken with my head cut off.

This was really a reminder to myself, offer your advice BUT if its not wanted, zip it. Full Stop.

Allow folks to make whatever decisions they deem necessary but also let them experience the consequences of said decisions too. So in the future they will make a different set of decisions.

Jonez.