On average, about six, then I give one more to see if the person has learned from the six chances that was given previously. In my opinion after the first second chance, it just goes down hill from there. If respect isn’t the main factor then the amount of chances given will not matter either.
To be honest, second chances aren’t only given when someone has cheated. For the record, you don’t get a pass for cheating. We will be done. When someone doesn’t respect your word, after being told how it affects you, is grounds to keep it moving. If I make the decision to allow you back into my World and you continue to do the same shit, then you gotta go. Nobody has ever had to tell me something twice, so why do I need to constantly remind you of the things that aren’t acceptable? Nope, not doing it.