Life’s Wonders

Do you ever wonder about the lives that are being lived without you?

Sometimes when Im daydreaming, I think about the folks who’s World I was apart of way back when. I’ve lived in a few different states, and I think about people I got to know, and I folks who I lost touch with. I wonder if they are thinking of me in that same moment, and if they are, what are they thinking about exactly? There isn’t a relationship I walked away from that I would like to revisit, but to be able to glimpse into their current lives would be a treat. Although I wish anyone I’ve dated, an amazing life, I always wonder how my exit from their lives changed their lives. If I was the one holding them back from being great, or If I was the glue holding them together.

Tristan Jonez.

Friends?

Beware of the Men who put themselves in the Friend Zone.

I love having male friends, they help to create a balance in my life that I wouldn’t otherwise have. However I am a bit skeptical when guys that I have previously dated or have talked to¬† are requesting to be my friend. I allow it but I am sure to create boundaries. I’m not sure what their intentions are, so I make sure I tell them what is acceptable in our new found friendship. At times I do think Its a ploy so they will be able to get into my panties but once I am done with you as a love interest, its very rare I will go back on that decision.

I encourage you to listen to your gut feeling, if your gut is like nah b. Then let that non existent friendship die. There are MILLIONS of people out there that you can create friendships with. But if you are cool with allowing a man to place himself in the friend zone, just be mindful of his words and actions.

Tristan Jonez