Closure is a farce! I hate to be the one to tell you, but it truly doesn’t exist. There will be nothing a person could ever really say, that will cause you to ‘understand’ where […]
Tag: relationships
The Blues
So I’m not exactly going through a break up, cuz he was Never my man BUT I’m finally fully walking away. I always have a hard time letting go of people, especially when I’ve grown […]
(Ex) Friends
Can you be friends with an Ex? In my younger dating years, I was able to keep it cute and cordial with folks who previously had the pleasure of my company. However, now, No I […]
According to … Kiana lede
“Now you feeling guilty, that’s your conscious, Cant you tell a bitch is fed up with your nonsense.” -Kiana Lede “I know how to be accountable for everything Ive done […] I know I fucked […]
Flags of Red
I saw the red flags. Each and Every One, I saw them. When I recognized them, I fell back. I wasn’t that deep in with homie, so I was able to begin the process of […]
Tox ic
Regardless of their title, IF they are toxic, leave them right where they are. I’ve heard the excuse, ‘Well that’s still your parent’, so many times, to which I now say, SO WHAT! I am […]
Those Twenty Somethings
My thirty something self dated a twenty something man, and I learned I have absolutely patience for that level of education. Age is more than just a fucking number, Aaliyah Lied! Maybe its because I […]
According to Wale …
“Met a lot of women, got a lot of niggas, but everybody full of shit, that’s why we back and forth again. My heart severely scorned and you the cause of it.” Oh Wale, there’s […]
Hitch
The Hopeless Romantic in me loves the movie Hitch, I know we’ve discussed this before but its currently showing on Netflix, and I seriously cannot get enough of it. At this very moment I am […]
More than …
I’ll be the first to admit, I have tried, and done everything to show a man, I was the one for him. I was always myself, but I made sure to be what he needed, […]
According to Wale…
“I don’t really know a damn thing about this love thing but I’m tryna try.” In the past, telling me you are willing to try this ‘love thing’ may have excited me. Wow! Here we […]
First Loves.
Writers Edit: Article first published on Chillology.co My forever love and first heartbreak is all wrapped in the same person, Lee Sidney*. If you could imagine a person so perfect, it would be him. I […]
