Take this L.

I’ve outgrown wanting revenge on others. I used to wish karma would get them back immediately when folks would do really shitty things to me. It would be a full on prayer, please karma, I need you to bring in motion what will be as their punishment, and if I’m fortunate I’ll be there to witness it! Please! I look back and laugh now, the best form of revenge is moving forward happily. I know, easier said than done, but once you’ve learned how to master it, it will get easier. People know exactly what they are doing, when they choose to disrespect, violate, and misplace your trust, so why would I give anyone the satisfaction of ‘making a scene’. Nah. Once you’ve lost my respect, there’s nothing left to be said.

In the words of Nipsey Hussle, “When your intentions are pure, you don’t lose anyone, they lose you.”

Tristan J.

Time to Plan

Do you believe in Revenge?

Never mind Karma, at this point in the conversation, karma doesn’t exist. If you could get revenge on someone who has wronged you, would you? I’ve been thinking about this all day, and I believe that I am not mature enough to not get revenge if the opportunity came. Most times when folks do me dirty I just write them off and keep it moving but I would definitely use the opportunity to give revenge on those folks who have hurt me.

Remember the tv series Revenge? Now that takes commitment to devote that much time, energy and effort into getting back at someone who wronged you. The steps that were put into place, the time dedicated could have been out to better use like finding your happy.

If you had the chance would you plan your revenge?

Tristan J