The Blues

So I’m not exactly going through a break up, cuz he was Never my man BUT I’m finally fully walking away. I always have a hard time letting go of people, especially when I’ve grown to be attached to them however this toxic shit has to go! It really is like men have this radar, when you are moving on without them, something beeps in their fucking head, that says, ‘Call her, Text her,” “And don’t forget to tell her you miss her.” I am over the okey doke, sometimes, NO, most times you have to block their number for a bit. Do whatever is needed to save ur damn sanity, cuz slowly you’ll lose your mind dealing with these types of men.

My only word of advice, and its not even advice, Men know exactly what they are doing. When they say, and do, they have already determined how important you are to them. They have already assessed how much they are willing to do, or not do, so when they show you, take it at face value. If you meant that much to them, they would do all that’s needed to keep you. So, don’t allow them to use excuses, they most definitely knew what they had in you, and IF they didn’t, oh well! Don’t go back babe! Once a shooting star has fizzled out, there’s no rewind button … You’re the Star!

Tristan J

6 Comments

  1. I’m a avid reader of your blog and i know that you’re the problem. You take no blame or consideration for anybody/anything rather man or woman. It’s a wonder you’re single and bouncing from state to state and man to man trying to find footing. Through this blog you show the shallowness or oneself. The depression reeks out of your pores. Living in this world alone makes it a miserable one. I’m sure that dude probably is a great guy just like the others you’ve talked about. TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR. YOURE THE PROBLEM MAYBE!

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