Can you be friends with an Ex? In my younger dating years, I was able to keep it cute and cordial with folks who previously had the pleasure of my company. However, now, No I […]
Category: Life Lesson
Con
Consistency is a weird thing for me suddenly. If you are new here, let me be the first to tell you. I am not usually consistent in my writing … or posting. I’ll have a […]
According To Wale…
“Love is overrated and underrated because it seem like a placebo when it be done.” Overrated adj. have a higher opinion of (something or someone) than deserved. Underrated v. To rate or evaluate too low. […]
Flags of Red
I saw the red flags. Each and Every One, I saw them. When I recognized them, I fell back. I wasn’t that deep in with homie, so I was able to begin the process of […]
Those Twenty Somethings
My thirty something self dated a twenty something man, and I learned I have absolutely patience for that level of education. Age is more than just a fucking number, Aaliyah Lied! Maybe its because I […]
Almost a Mother.
Originally Written October 19, 2019. As I fly to my destination, my mind thinks about what life would look like if I didn’t miscarry when I was five months pregnant, I was twenty two. My […]
BBJoy
Theres something I find so refreshing in children, especially little black boys, and that’s joy. Seeing them in an environment that promotes, them being their true selves, that just makes me smile. Makes me see […]
According to Wale …
“Met a lot of women, got a lot of niggas, but everybody full of shit, that’s why we back and forth again. My heart severely scorned and you the cause of it.” Oh Wale, there’s […]
I am tired of always telling folks how they should show up for me, in certain situations. I am tired of being the example I would like reflected back at me. Tired of being there […]
More than …
I’ll be the first to admit, I have tried, and done everything to show a man, I was the one for him. I was always myself, but I made sure to be what he needed, […]
Black Tings.
Although Black History Month is over, we are still all about black tings on this site cuz I IS BLACK! Technically, I am blackity black, pretty much black af, you know, BLACK! So the other […]
First Loves.
Writers Edit: Article first published on Chillology.co My forever love and first heartbreak is all wrapped in the same person, Lee Sidney*. If you could imagine a person so perfect, it would be him. I […]
