Love me right the first time. It is NOT a badge of honor for a man to come back to you. I would love it if they all stayed away, after the first time. Funny […]
Tag: relationship
Vibe
Fellas, stop introducing women to a vibe you cannot maintain. Whatever that vibe may be. I get it, when you initially meet a person you want to be the very best version of yourself, even […]
Dear Diary …
My My My, its been such a long time, that Ive ‘written’ in you dear diary. I do apologize, Ive just been out here living life. So I know, you hate being kept in the […]
Dear Diary …
There was a time when meeting his mother was significant, right? No checklist, but you had to mean something special to him, before you met momma. Y’all had reached a certain ‘level’ before the meeting […]
According to Wale.
“She gonna find her solace, in knowing a nigga is damaged. She gonna take my heart, cuz a nigga took her for granted.” Solace n. Comfort or consolation in a time of distress or sadness. […]
Where’s my Lid?
If a man’s words and actions don’t match, leave. If you’re set on staying, always go according to his words. He can ‘show’ you all the emotions and feels in the World but once you […]
According to Wale …
“What if Love is nothing more than a fairytale?” What if? In all my disappointments in Love, what if I was doomed before I had even started? Doomed before I could really have the opportunity […]
Dear Diary …
How do you know when it’s time to cut your losses and stop investing in someone? Maybe this question would be better posed to someone who invest in stocks and bonds so we could have […]
Finish Last.
For a few days, I’ve been thinking of this text, a friend sent me. I’m genuinely nice, all the time. Never looking for anything in return. Just wanting folks to change their perspective, and see […]
Dear Diary …
I know we agreed we’d only be speaking positive about ourselves and pouring positivity Into us but I’m having a hard time not saying … What I hate about myself is! So since I haven’t […]
Cut It Off?
In this age of dating, stop being so quick to cut ‘a nigga off’. The options are endless, choices boundless but doesn’t it get tiring swiping right or left? How much time are you actually […]
Dear Diary …
I’ve been thinking about the conversations I’ve had with my guy recently and I don’t think we consider men’s trauma. Of course we know they have to deal with nonsense just like women in relation […]
Jonez, Where We Going? 